Im sorry your going thru all this stress.. paying bills in general can be overwhelming ..

Do you have a Therapist? or a caseworker? If so turn to them for help and guidence in finding out exactly what you assistance qualify for and where to help with the entire stressful situation.

Try not to beat yourself up ( yes easier said than done) Post here all you need .

Im sure others will be by to offer more information than I have to offer

((( Hugs )))