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Jul 30, 2012, 02:23 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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This is kinda weird. When you were together before, she was ok with sex, correct?? And now, all of a sudden she got SAVED -- and she wants to "save herself" for marriage. Isn't it a little too late for that???  Isn't she being a hypocrit? Didn't she ALREADY have sex before marriage? I mean, c'mon -- what kind of a game is she playing here? I believe in God too, but good grief.
And it doesn't say anything in the Bible about smoking -- so you should be able to smoke all you want. She can't have EVERYTHING. You're a man, so ACT like one and stand your ground!!! Don't let her take over the relationship!!! YOU have to have some rights too, ya know! Tell her NO, you're not going to stop smoking, and if she doesn't like it, don't let the door hit you in the arse!!! As far as porn goes, I'm not a fan of it either. My ex used to have Playboy magazines, and I didn't mind that so much, but porn movies -- no. I just don't think those are necessary. Sorry.
As far as her weight goes why not invite her to go jogging with you? It would be healthy for both of you, and she might lose some weight. Or invest in a treadmill in case she'd be too embarassed to run in public.
Just an idea. 
I wish you the best of luck, but she sounds like she's pretty strong-willed. You're gonna have to stand up to her, and not let her take over this relationship. Stand your ground on issues you believe in!!! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee 
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