I have so many thoughts swirling around inside when I think about confronting the person who did things (s*x ab*s*) when I was little.

Has anyone ever confronted their abuser and had either a good or neutral outcome? Right now, I cannot imagine it going well.

If so, did you do a lot of preparation? Did you think beforehand that it might go well? Had the abuser ever been accused before (so they weren't blindsided by you)? Any other things that might help to know?

I do have weekly therapy and would not consider doing this in haste. I'm just now starting to consider confrontation as an option and don't want to wait until next Monday to talk to T about it. Plus, I value the experience of those who have been there, done that.

Elizabeth