I was referring to what I thought was another post by you; if I was mistaken, sorry.

Your education is not some vague nebulous thing that can "suffer". It's a contract, like a job. You pay for it, you show up, you do homework and take tests, they give you grades, they give you a degree - your payoff. If you neglect to perform YOUR part of the contract (which is actually a privilege many young women in the world don't have access to), you don't get your payoff. These are the facts of life. Don't yell at me, I don't much like them either.