Hello everyone. I'm new to this board and I hope you don't mind me talking about a break up that I went through with my now ex boyfriend. I am talking specifically about a gay relationship that seemed great for one year but ended. He wanted out because he said he was not relationship material. This was a year ago. We had no contact for about 5 months and just as I thought I was doing ok he got in touch with me and we've been friendly ever since. We see each other regularly but never anything intimate - just friendly get togethers. I'm now feeling that I need to fish or cut bait with him because my thoughts of him maybe wanting to get back together have now faded as I see he is not interested in that, just friendship. It is a tough call as I still care very much for him. I guess I'm just looking to chat with someone to help me get through what I am about to do - "break up" with him!! I can't seem to get on with my life, meet new people, date, etc. without thinking of him. I think that I need to get back to no contact with him in order to move on. Any comments on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.