Thank you myself. That was very helpful in helping me understand how it's possible to have happy memories. I guess the reason I was asking was because I was on my way from out of town and we drove were going to drive by where my grandmother was buried and all of a sudden I found myself crying, this happened about 3 times before we actually got there. But the thing is I have no memory of my grandmother because I have no memory before the age of 12 or so. So I was just wondering if one of them had some happy memories of my grandmother. So thanks again for your response!

Jennifer