Hi Somebody: You are truly a compassionate person for wanting to understand and help. Others here have already given good advice. As for the person telling you they are going to leave you right then, go cut, and then come back...at some point it is important to set a boundary for yourself, otherwise, the situation can be turned into a manipulative one by the other person, and they won't, deep down, feel good about that.

:-) Warmest regards, Peanut

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