I had to have a c-section.....I was too small & my baby was too big (I was only 5'2" & 105 lbs when I got pregnant & only ended up gaining 15 lbs total while pregnant because the stressful thought of having to have a c-section made me loose 10 pounds the last month I was pregnant......my daughter weighed 8 lbs 2 oz of that 15 lbs.....she was definitely too big & had ended up turning breech & because I was so small, there was no room for her to turn around.

I understand stress......I am finally at the point to get the divorce no matter how bad the financial situation is. I left him 5 years ago physically moving 2100 miles away...but left him 13 years before that while living in the same home....that was miserable also. Much better making the clean break....in all reality....LOVE is a 2 way emotion....the love between a husband & wife......anything else isn't real love...it's just love for what you thought the person was.....& reality hits.

My H is a nice person but I hate his lies & the way he always makes himself out as the victim & refuses to be responsible for anything that takes any kind of serious action on his part even at the age of 60. I saw it before I was married & really didn't want to get married, but with my mother saying he would change & thinking there was potential there, I went ahead with the marriage....but it wasn't fair to the marriage because I didn't like him from even before the beginning of the marriage & he never changed......& most never will. Look for the qualities you really want in a man....otherwise....don't waste your time on them. I believe I am better off without a husband....I never needed one & I am definitely better off without him especially one you can't trust.

I care about him & hope that is isn't as ill as his actions indicate.....but I don't like him for a person to live with & wouldn't waste my time on him ever again. Relationships aren't easy, but it's a waste to feel love for a person who isn't capable of returning it.