hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. this is a hard one. there are some couples and some singles that i don't WANT to be around. and i've certainly been "dumped" by a woman friend when she "hooked" up with a man.

i think as i've become older, it doesn't matter to me where my friends come from. if they are going to be your friend...you've got one. if not....you didn't have one in the first place.

i have gay single friends, straight single friends, married gay/straight couples and my daughters are my friends. so, i guess we just learn to be patient and also try and cultivate as we go.

xoxoxox pat