I'm not sure I totally understand the hows and whys of the ways this termination came to be. So I can't tell if it is a good idea to contact her or not.

I did end with my T after 3 sessions. He asked me if we were done & I took that to mean that we were done, so I didn't make another appt. I freaked OUT 2 weeks later and sent him a weirdo email about my raging transference. He brought me in on a crisis appt and we resumed my therapy.