Hi Dan,

What compromises is your gf making for you? I would recommend sitting down to make a list of what you do love about your gf, and what bugs you about her. She can't expect you to make all of the changes, that only leads to resentment. Healthy relationships are give and take on both sides!

I do think that it's important that the two of you have similar views on religious beliefs. If she's gung-ho, and you aren't a big believer, that can make the relationship pretty strained in itself. Really, I see a lot of complications in your relationship with your gf.

Maybe the woman you're in love with is the person that she was before. Before you broke up. The woman that you describe right now doesn't sound like she's putting any effort into building a healthy relationship with you.

Very best wishes to you!