Well I found more info!!
I did some digging online and shelled out $6 and found everyone in my state named (john doe) via intellus.com . He was the step dad of my abuser and found out who he was married to via an online database called archives.com ( I have a free 7 day trial) through marriage records (in order to find my abuser I needed to find the previous married name of his mother - I didn't have that info. My mom was able to tell me when my abusers mom died approximation so I looked online via archives.com and found her death certificate. So next stop is to find her children (my abuser). I'm going to have to go to the library and look up the obituaries for the date that she died (around that date) - anyone who died before 2001 you can't find online for obituaries. Typically in the obituaries one can find 'survived by'. I also have a friend that works in law enforcement so I'm going to ask them to look up what I think could be my abusers name (my abuser was arrested before and has been to prison - but for other crimes not for CSA).
Keep you all posted. I so badly want to call T1 and say I found him!!!!!!
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