Well my doctor seems to think it is something purely physical( it isn't just a psychological condition)causing it. I have the primary kind, I have had it all of my life and havent suffered any sexual abuse or trauma.
Cancer can be one of the causes. Tumors and cysts are another. My doctor is testing me for those things after birth.
I have already made peace with the whole husband thing. I want him to be happy and I have to let him go. At least I got to experience what true love feels like and I had my child by the man I loved. If I dont find anyone else ever, then that is okay.