Not a weirdo, i'm kinda the opposite tho. Always had loads of friends from the get go, I'll be 28 tomorrow (Wednesday) and now have none... I isolated heavily last year, cut off the few (3) close friends I did have. They seemed way too self-absorbed and ill-equipped to be my friends any longer. Add that to the fact that to them fun = alcohol, and I was not impressed. I don't have problems with alcohol, but I don't want to see it every weekend either. Thats just boring and unhealthy. Saw them this weekend, by chance, and enjoyed their company, but I don't think I changed my mind, I mean I haven't gone back have I? I'm not a complete loner tho, I hang out with my brother and sister sometimes (who can let loose without a glass inhand) and for me thats enough. Nope, I don't have anybody to call when the proverbial s.h.i.t hits the fan, that would be über - nice, but I'm used to dealing on my own anyway... You're not weird, keep at it, try, try, try and you WILL succeed