does anyone have experience telling a strick t about it.

ive told my ts before. but they were gentle. this one will probably see it as resistance. or maybe not want to work with me. because of it.

i know i should tell. but im afraid of the response.

another thought. has anyone kept it to themselves. and did ok. going through trauma with it. i s/i-ed because of work today. so maybe should techniquically tell her. before we get into stuff. but i cant.

is there a way to test. if she would be ok with it. or not. some ts arent ok with it.