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Originally Posted by Ticli-Otops
He said that he deleted it because he didn't want any guys hitting on me.(It happened a lot, but I always made it stop.) He's deleted it multiple times, but I always reactivated it. But this time he told me it either stayed deleted or he'd break my laptop, or tear the tendons in my hands so that I wouldn't be able to type.  But, I stay with this guy because I've given him everything, and I have put so much effort into this relationship that I feel like it would be a really bad idea to give up, now. I believe that if something's broken you fix it....not throw it away... |
Hey lady
Have you actually read what you've written there? I mean actually read it an taken it in? The man you are with, who is supposed to treat you with respect, love and understanding is telling you these things.
Yes, you may have put a lot of effort into your relationship, but can you tell me what he has done for you, other than control and threaten you?
You are putting all the effort into the wrong man. I hope soon you will realise that you cant fix him, you cant change him, the only thing you will get out of staying with him is more and more misery. You obviously know that he is treating you wrong because you reach out to people here, I hope you can one day soon see what we see, and that is you're with an abusive man who doesnt love you, or even like you. He just wants the power over you and you give it to him.
Its just a shame that you dont listen to the folk here, but I understand that when a person is with an abuser, its hard to see the woods for the tree's and hard to find the strength to find a way out.
You really should find that strength from somewhere - for your safety, your sanity and to prove to yourself that you are worth so much better than this man.
I wish you luck, remember, you cant change him, you can only change yourself.
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