Hi (((((pbutton)))))

I didn't give T a letter either.

It sounds like you don't have any leftover feelings/thoughts hanging on that you just have to get out...for me, I think that's the situation where I would really feel like I needed to send a letter...if I had something I wished I'd said, but I didn't.

T did tell me when I left that he would love to hear about my successes and if I was having a hard time...and I have seen him since then and told him something big and good that happened to one of my sons and he said "that's the sort of thing I'd love to hear about". I bet your T would LOVE the zipline picture Sort of a "look what we accomplished together!" celebration

My termination wasn't as clean cut as I thought it would be...I've talked to T and I've seen him twice. I think every termination is different...some of us never contact T again, others end up having some communication, others send a letter...just like everything else in therapy, I don't think there's a "right" way to do it.

I love that you're going to do the zipline by the way