Or dangle over a crevasse wearing a pig mask? You ARE going to wear the geico pig mask, aren't you?

ETA: really the only point is that you even want to share it with him, I think. pardon me if i'm repeating myself, but I told T today that I felt like a different person last week compared to 18 mos ago when I gave him this hockey book for xmas. both times he had this sweet little cloudburst of tears, but the first time, I didn't feel included, connected - I didn't know where to look, I didn't know what I did, who I was, who he was, I plain didn't know wtf happened. This time, I reached out, I understood, I had a familial feeling, I told him now i know what to do when someone feels bad. we agreed that my finding PC because of his mistake last summer was a miracle.