Oh do I hear you on this! Me too. I wonder if my T knows this about me??

But I truly feel that those of us who depise our needy part have to accept that it's OK to have needs. To need other people, to need a hug, to need support when we're feeling weak. I haven't a clue as to why this is so impossible for me. When I read your story, pbutton, I almost don't understand why you see sending this picture as a "needy" thing. It's a wonderful thing to do, and I think your T will love it. But then when I imagine myself doing it, then it's totally unacceptable. WTF?? Just WTF?????

Send the picture!! And work with T2 to discover why any neediness is so unacceptable to you. And when you figure it out, will you let me know? I'm not making any progress in this area at all. God, I'm stubborn.