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Old Jul 31, 2012, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by pbutton View Post
I am considering sending T1 a thank you with picture of me on the Zipline excursion of my upcoming cruise. I was pretty much agoraphobic when I started therapy, and I'm afraid of heights, so this ziplining thing will be pretty cool. But then I feel sort of stupid about the whole thing. Is it worth the trouble?
I got married 4 or 5 years after I terminated with T and I sent her a photo from my wedding I then saw her again for a period 5 years later and was glad; it made the period between when I'd terminated and when I saw her again feel/work better in the whole life experiences thing, like I was one piece/connected to myself.

You can't know what will happen in the future, how you'll feel, you can only work with what you have now and try to build something for the future. If it would make you feel good to send the picture, then send it. I don't think it will morph into feeling bad afterwards. It will always be a concrete reminder of how far you've come.
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Thanks for this!
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