After I had my daughter, I returned to normal within a few weeks. The vagina has a way of expanding and stretching and the resilience to snap back quickly. You will be sore and bleed a bit for a few days but hopefully not to excess. I also found that my sex drive returned powerful and strong within a couple of months. Those first few weeks you will no doubt be tired and new born babies need a lot of attention and sleeping through the night usually is not on their radar. A baby changes everything. Birth is a natural event though and women have been doing it for centuries. Most of the time the complications are minimal and the joy of having a new born baby compensates many times over for the pain and discomfort that you may feel
I wish you well with your delivery. I am sure that you must be excited to welcome your new baby into your arms