Thank you, jennie, myself, and Rhapsody. I gather from your posts that it is very difficult to do the confrontation. You all have given me good food for thought. I'm very much on the fence about the whole idea, but there is not consensus about this with my alters yet (a few think that it may be necessary). I will really have to put some thought into what I would be trying to accomplish. Mine is a situation of confronting a parent 25 years after it stopped. I really don't know what I'll do, but I have plenty of time to mull it over.

Thanks again,

Elizabeth