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Jul 31, 2012, 07:21 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Sweetie, why hate yourself for other peoples actions? Isn't THEIR problem? Isn't them who did the abusing? It isn't that you are unloveable -- it's that other people can be cruel for whatever reason!! Other people use others for their own reasons. And as for the things that you think you did wrong, don't you know that God forgave you the MINUTE you did them??? He knows you are sorry -- so if HE can forgive you, why can't you forgive yourself?
We can't help what other people do to us. I was abused as a child too, but I don't hate myself. I KNOW I didn't deserve it. And I don't deserve ANY abuse that I get NOW. Why should I?? I don't hurt anyone if I can help it -- and neither do YOU. You don't INTENTIONALLY hurt people, do you!!! So why should you deserve to be hurt by others? You DON'T.
You ARE loveable, just like me and anyone else! You ARE deserving of good things, just like me and anyone else. You are just as GOOD as me and everyone else.
There is an exercise that is a bit uncomfortable to do, but my psychologist made me do it LOL> She made me go to the mirror EVERY MORNING and look at myself and say : "I love you" until I meant it. Boy was THAT hard.  It took several months until I fiinally GOT it.
Please dont cut anymore my friend. We're all here with you and care about you. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee 
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