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Aug 01, 2012, 03:29 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ I think Roman made some great suggestions. It really HARD living with inlaws and especially hard when your husband has been married once before and the inlaws are still in contact with the ex-wife! I think it stinks that they talk about her in front of you. That's like a slap in the face, and they ought to have more sense than to do that. If they have anything to say about her, they should talk about her privately, and not in front of you. It just isn't necessary.
And Roman was right about getting a small apartment too. Granted, it might stall getting a house, but it sure would be better than your current arrangement. At least you'd have privacy, and wouldn't have to hear about the ex all the time. I'm sure you'd be happier.
And contrary to what you think -- you did NOT CHEAT. Talking to an old ex is NOT CHEATING. I don't care what you say. Cheating is having physical contact with someone, and you didn't. Talk is not cheating. Talk is just talk. So you have nothing to forgive yourself for.  So what if you talked to him? If you saw him on the street, would that be cheating? NO. So stop punishing yourself. You didn't cheat. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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