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Aug 01, 2012, 09:24 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Personally, I would be devastated just like you. And I would not be sure if I could trust what he said either as far as his feelings for me. First he says he loves her, and then he says he loves me? HUH? Give me a break, dude!
Yes, I'd want to sit down and talk to him. I'd insist on the TRUTH -- does he still love her? Does he still cry for her? Does he want OUT?? I'd tell him (even tho it would make a difference) that whatever he decides is ok with me. If he wants to stay together, fine. If he wants to break up, fine. (Waaaaaa ) But I wouldn't make a scene cause I wouldn't want to give him the satisfaction.  I can go cry in my beer later. 
I'm sure you ARE hurt -- I know I would be, and I'd be really unsure about trusting him in the future. No, he didn't cheat, but given the opportunity I think he probably would have. So if you two stay togethr, be careful. You may end up getting your heart broken again. God bless and PLEASE take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee v
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