god that's horrible! your parents are right pieces of work aren't they!

it's really tough to say whether your T is in the right or not. because i have no other experience of her. and your impression of her reaction and her reasoning for her reaction could be two different things.

for example; my T criticised something i said about someone, said that my comment was cruel. anyone i spoke to for the next week (if i had actually talked to them about it) would have heard me say that my T said i was a cruel person and that he hated me and wasn't it terrible of him to be so mean to me...of course you can see that's not the case but at the time that's exactly what it felt like.

i would go to your T and tell her how you feel. it does seem strange to me that she wouldn't say anything about your parents behaviour but maybe she had a reason? i don't know, maybe not. maybe she IS a terrible T. i just don't think i can make a judgement on that from just this information.

i do feel for you though. i realise you must be feeling really bad right now. xo