Denial? I KWUM, pbutton. I remember my aunt telling my mom to pay more attention to me one time, and both mum and me went, "Eeuuww! No! yuck!" or whatever the equivalent was at that time. And my mom told her sister, "see, i'm not neglecting her, she doesn't WANT more attention!" bless mum's heart. so, creepyish to me, too, till I met T