I was with a girl for over 2 years and it ended very badly. We live in a large, but "small" town and we couldn't even handle running into each other. It got to the point where she had to move away and start over someplace else.

It hurt for quite awhile, but now I wish her all the happiness that I couldn't give her. A clean break was the best thing.

It's sometimes just too hard to be "just friends" esp. when there is history there and those special moments that you had. I vote for no contact.

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