no hurt feelings to me.

er... does debate hurt people's feelings? i don't mean to sound hostile / for people to feel hostile in response to what i say... i'm just trying to discuss things. i'm not trying to argue in the raised voices attacking kinda way, but i do like to talk about stuff.

i really don't understand what the big deal is with the 'you can't talk about whether the disorder exists or not' stuff.

people meet criteria therfore OF COURSE it exists.

the debate was never around whether it existed or not, it was about its nature. are we allowed to discuss its nature? (ie different theories of the disorder)?

i don't understand...

i'm sorry

by the way... if it makes any difference i'm dx DID. i'm not at all trying to suggest the disorder is BS or anything like that... or that it is all in ones head. i'm not.