minny, I think you need to talk to T about the frozen yogurt. YOUR fears about her reaction now, and not wanting to face it - that's a rupture between you two. She didn't die when you didn't eat your yogurt, and she didn't kill you for not eating it - so it's safe to talk about it now. I know that sounds funny, but I am one hundred percent serious. It will be awkward, but you can gain so much fRom it.