geez, I am sorry you are struggling with T2. I am going through the same exact with my T2 (I think I"ve mentioned that, though, about a
billion times on PC since I started seeing him a month ago

)
I am not sure what is going on with your T2 but it sounds (reads) like she is pushing a lot of buttons
And also, it also sounds as if she is kind of ... dingy (I usually try to reserve making comments about others Ts but this is one of those rare times)
That said, is this the kind of style of T that is BEST for you right now?
Please let us know how you are doing and how things go with T1.