Why can't my mom just come out and say that she isn't going to monetarily support me any more instead of taking my money promising to repay it months on end and not then, not paying bills of mine she used to without telling me she didn't pay them. Instead of my phone being turned off, me realizing this and paying the bill, informing my mom it was turned off and her reply being "oh, I must not have any money in that bank account. I'll pay it in a week". Well I already payed it. Or I'll give you money to get your car tag, not giving me money for it, then me being 30 dollars short for the tag/registration and more "promises" of being given the money. Some thing with car insurance. She used to pay for my eye dr. appointment and contacts, but it was just not getting paid. I just wish she could say, "You're financially independent now. Don't plan on getting any of the money I took from you back and plan on paying all of your bills and everything you want by yourself." I just think that would be easier that keep holding on to the "promise" of I'll pay you back that has been going on since the beginning of May. If I know I have to pay for all of these things that she said she would/used to ahead of time, I can plan so I have enough money. Why can't she just say that? It would make things so much easier.