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I find her unsafe because of her inconsistency and her 'mood' from the previous two sessions. It was very inconsistent (I'm familiar with that type of person - i grew up that way and worked to make myself invisible).
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Is she triggering you because she reminds you of this person? If so, this would be really good to talk to her about.
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She thinks I am hard on people and know one is perfect but at some point a spade is a spade.
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When she told you this, is this when you started thinking about her differently?
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Am I telling myself what I want to hear (leave T) so
I can avoid working through the fear of dealing with T and the triggers from my past?
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so I can protect myself.
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Excellent questions!
I know for myself I never turned down an opportunity to work through a trigger. You never know when the next opportunity will arise and if you work through a trigger successfully you have one down and an easier life.