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Originally Posted by kiki86
hmm this is me EVERY time i plan something. lol
are you still going to be seeing your T when you move? if not it might be a good idea to get one in your new place. no one says you have to do this alone.
did your T say why your "what if" plans were not good? did you talk to her about different ones?
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I'll still be seeing my T when I go to school. Many of the healthy ways I cope with my feelings do not involve other people and she was worried that I would be pushing everyone away and walling myself off. Which, I do agree with her about that, but it doesn't hurt to give myself alone time if I'm feeling crummy, as long as what I'm doing is healthy. Plus, it will be hard to share myself with other people (especially ones that I don't know), if I'm not feeling 100%.