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Originally Posted by Sannah
Geez: I find her unsafe because of her inconsistency and her 'mood' from the previous two sessions. It was very inconsistent (I'm familiar with that type of person - i grew up that way and worked to make myself invisible).
Is she triggering you because she reminds you of this person? If so, this would be really good to talk to her about.
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I don't feel like I need to discuss this with her. I know what the trigger is and even though I understand it it doesn't mean I should have to put up with her 'mood' or inconsistency.
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Originally Posted by Sannah
Geez: She thinks I am hard on people and know one is perfect but at some point a spade is a spade.
When she told you this, is this when you started thinking about her differently?
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No I started thinking about her differently with her reaction to me about me telling her I was angry because she was chronically late.
I think working through triggers is important however not in this case because of her unprofessionalism and lack of ability to hold good boundaries. As a result I feel like my issue of trust has been damaged further. I don't know that I can open myself up like that again.