No dolphingirl,
It doesn't sound as though you're spoiled.
Have you tried applying for grants and scholarships? I got both through my junior year of college, and didn't have to pay until my senior year began. That's when I took out school loans ~ because my parents couldn't afford to contribute to my advanced education. It was my responsibility.
Things do become more complicated in that you have a child which requires childcare during school and some studying. Have you tried getting some financial support from the father of your child, or the county in which you live?I would recommend doing so, if you haven't already. No reason why you should have to bear 100% of the cost!
I do wish you the best ~ hope that things go well in school for you.