Hey..

Am no expert, but I dont think someone telling you that a lack of sex drive isnt healthy will help you at all, as then you can just add a mix of guilt and shame into the pot. This will never help your sex drive improve!!

Some people have a very very low sex drive, just as some people have a high sex drive. I personally do not think that there is a right or wrong. What is right for YOU is the right thing and please dont take anyone else's opinions to heart. Stuff em!

If though, you are not happy, then perhaps seek therapy. Some people experiment to see if there's something out there that might turn them on etc, but the most important thing is to always feel comfortable with yourself. I dont think a lot of women (and men too!) will feel sexy if they're worried or have negative thoughts.

I wish you all the best :-)