(((((((((((((((( nightsky )))))))))))))) I will keep your grandmother & you in my prayers. Myself, I had no grandmothers & only one grandfather, but he was my hero and his passing left a big empty space.
BTW pneumonia took my Mom, too. Don't want to hijack yr thread at all but thought I would remind the PC folk that there is a pneumonia vaccine out there - you need take it only something like every 7 yrs.
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Originally Posted by nightsky
it feels like what would help even more would be to have that space once a week to just "be". To decompress and not be surrounded by my noisy boys and the busy-ness of my life, and to be cared for and heard. A place to bring my stuff and leave it. A place to talk to someone who understands completely why certain things are hard for me..
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Lots of the 'rich and famous' have a T permanently on call, as it were, for these same reasons; and I've decided that it's a very practical & helpful resource to set up for oneself. No reason it should be limited to the R&F either. I am thinking that, if T2 is willing, we might make some sort of permanent arrangement too, whenever the main work is 'done'.
Your appt in 8 days will be a good opportunity to look at how this might be for you and T. But no pressure - you don't have to decide right then - just let unfold whatever will. I am hoping the best for you
