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Old Jul 13, 2006, 06:35 AM
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Yes, I hide...many days the phone goes unanswered at my house. lol

My husband knows me too well though, and I usually can't hide from him...which is technically good, but it doesn't always feel like a good thing to me

I think one reason I hide is that I take Everything way too personally, so if I have no contact, there's one less thing for me to feel bad about. Just today at work, my 'big boss' told me about a problem with some of our product, that linked back to me (not Only me) and I felt like a total failure. I was ready to quit and go home crying! He didn't even tell me about it, forcefully or reprimand type of situation, but it was almost too much for me, anyway. (this is my first jaunt into printed circuit boards, knew nothing about the boards themselves--so an easy mistake for me to make) He actually kind of said it gently, for a boss type, but I over-personalized it to the point that when he left, I started crying in the warehouse corner where I was working. My husband, though, uncannily, knows when I need him...he turned up after the first few tears and talked me down.

Anyway, not to ramble or hijack, but just a recent incident that illustrated what I mean.

{{{{{{{{Susan}}}}}}}} You know I am here for you, if you ever need anything
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