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Honey, you don't even know if your ex wants you "for good." He has a wife and family. What makes you think he would dump all that for you? Do you think he'd leave his family for you? Has he told you? Do you believe him? Chances are you'd be left out in the cold without ANYONE.
You're thinking with your heart and NOT with your head. Do you REALLY want to leave your children and go to this ex? Do you REALLY think your husband would let you take your children and run off to this ex? I doubt it very seriously! He would NOT let you take those kids. You'd have to leave them -- could you really do that?
You have a LOT of thinking to do. You're just not thinking straight. Right now, you have a husband that loves you, two children that love you, and a home. Do you really want to give all that up for a guy that PROBABLY WILL NOT leave his wife and family for YOU.
My advice -- stay where you are and get some counseling. You're just living in the past -- and the past wasnt that great. You two (you and your ex) couldn't live together and you couldnt live apart. It really was NOT that great! You couldn't make a life together cause you couldn't get along. Forget it. It's all over. Get some counseling. And stay put. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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