I have a cousin whose wife always said that her husband "just used up all his niceness" at times; that's why he was never very friendly.

I think her message to all is that to be friendly we have to avoid "using up all our niceness". That makes for better friendships. And, yes, it's great to be alone sometimes. I treasure my time alone, and I hope you do, too.

Remember, "stay with your niceness" when you want to be around folks!

Good wishes,

Genetic