I am learning to take everything I read with a grain of salt so to speak. I read most of the site and even clicked on other things and really looked around reading alot of it. It was written in the late '90's and much has gone on in the field of psychology since. He has his experiences and his opinions. He talks of things like "other lives" and "celestial beings" and such--very interesting BUT---
A grain of salt. One psychologist's opinions, observations and theories. There are others out there also. Some things help me understand others just boggle my mind and confuse me more. Too much knowledge can be as bad as none at all for me.
What it really comes down to is that we all have had our full share of abuse, opinions, labels and other such cr*p. The bottom line is that we are all trying to heal and work through all of it.
I so agree Reah, that we are individuals with unique qualities that don't fit neatly in boxes with labels. And ALL those individual qualities is what makes our systems what they are. Unique to us and how we survived what we did.
Just my thoughts
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