I feel lost now in the dating world. I'm 28 and just got out of a relationship. The girl was so coy and complicated, it intrigued me so much and I wanted to help her so much. Plus it was werid I accepted her completely. From what I told my friends, they said I was giving way too much. With my therapist I realized prehaps, grativitate toward those types and end up having to do everything...and then I am not happy at the end. It has to do with internal rejection and low self esteem I discovered, and real loneiness. I don't feel strong enough myself to be accepting of myself alone. And MAN she was so Hot and intriguing...haha so now I'm lost and I feel no one can compare or I don't feel I'll be into or interest to the next girl. Its seems bland and disheartening. I am still not over her, but she also was so cold to me at times. I hate this feeling of confusion and sadness. Can I be okay with myself alone before reaching out to a better mate?

Can you connect with anything I'm saying ArrMcee?