I'm really glad you started this thread. I joined a local online dating thing but haven't met any of the guys yet. One guy wanted to meet for coffee because he's also in recovery and when I said I'd decided I'd have to talk with guys online for awhile before I'd meet them, he still kept pushing and gave me his e-mail addresss. I said maybe we could meet at a meeting sometime. If he's that into recovery, he should jump on that. He agreed but I'm still weirded out about the whole thing. Not sure I want to meet someone irl from this site. I've been talking to a guy online from Maryland for 9 years now...we decided that when we're 40, if we haven't met anyone yet, we'll get married and move to Europe. That'll be in 2018. Countdown is on....haha.