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Aug 05, 2012, 01:31 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ Shezbut gave you some practical answers, and they were great! I'm going to go in another direction.
Do you believe in God? I hope so. I have a feeling like Shezbut said that your fiance' had some trouble growing up. Perhaps she was looking for love because she didn't feel much love growing up. Many girls look for love in the wrong place. But when she did this with the other guys, God forgave her when she did this. If God forgave her, why can't YOU??? She has already been forgiven. She has stopped that kind of behavior -- she has been forgiven. So isn't it time YOU forgave her?  WE aren't bigger than God -- so we should be able to forgive people who have wronged, shouldn't we?
I'm sure she feels bad enough for the both of you, and has asked for forgiveness. So give her the benefit of the doubt, and FORGET all that. If you love her, take her as she is. I'm sure she needs you and love YOU, warts and all. LOL God bless and best of luck to you both. Hugs, Lee 
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