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Aug 05, 2012, 02:04 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi LadyDove ~ I have to agree that your partner is indeed a first class JERK. You deserve SO much better than this!!  Why are you putting yourself thru this? Do you feel that you can't get something better? Is that what is holding you from throwing him to the dogs?
Please believe me when I say that you CAN get someone better than this!! And life is too short and precious to be wasting it on someone like this. You'd be better off having a dog than wasting your time and effort on this guy. At least a dog would be happy to see you and give you plenty of affection!  Not only that, but he would protect you at night!
So say goodbye to this time-waster! He certainly isn't doing you any good, is he? He doesn't go anywhere with you, he doesn't give you anything, he isn't a gentleman, he doesn't care if he marry's you or not, etc. So what good is he? Find someone who WANTS you -- REALLY wants you. And I'm sure it won't take that long. Be good to yourself for once, and stop doing for everyone else. YOU are important too, you know! YOU matter too. Find a good therapist and have a talk. It will do you a world of good. It sure did for me. God bless and please take care of YOU. Keep us posted, ok??? Big hugs, Lee 
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