I am a woman and I was wondering, how to tell all my friends that I am gay. That I just want friendships with guys but I don't want to get involved with them beyound that and that I am gay and draw the line with that boundry. I have a bunch of guy friends now (recently) and they call (I know them from AA and a mental health club-[hope there are no major phycopaths that I just gave my number to] Well anyway, I haven't broken my promise to myself about getting involved. Do you all think I am a jerk wanting all these "friends." I want to expect that my bounderies will be respected and I will be a tough tough cookie. A small part of me is screaming in my head though worrying that men just don't obey any rules, no matter who makes them or how hard anyone tries to keep them. Help, I want support from you to be very firm and couragous and safe around people. Gee, I don't know about me. DA.]