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You need to start putting things in order to leave. Gather important documents like your birth certificate, social sec card, stuff like that. Do you have your own bank account?
We live seperately, he lives with his parents though he stays over here a lot. So I don't have to leave, he is the one who will be leaving.
Just because he has DID does not make it okay for him to hurt you and your pets. Having a bad childhood, having a bad day at work, having a mental illness - none of that makes it okay to hurt you.
I know it's not okay, he knows its not okay, it upsets him that his alters do these things.
Do you have someone who can take care of your cats for a bit? If not perhaps it would be best to ask the animal shelter if they can take them until you are able to care for them.
They barely come home, they're clearly getting fed elsewhere, they're pretty much safe.
You need to know that you are most in danger of serious injury when he realizes you are leaving.
This isn't true, I have left him before as I am a very unstable person and although he has been upset he doesn't kick off or anything.
Does he have weapons? Do you have a plan for where you will go? Do you know where the domestic violence shelter is? Do you know how to get a restraining order?
As I said, it's my place, he doesn't live here, so I won't need a shelter and I don't need anywhere to go.
I'll still have to be with him until the 24th August, I don't really have much of a choice due to the Austria trip. I'm gonna see how I feel when I get back...
Kaz x
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