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Old Aug 05, 2012, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by goldshift View Post
but my therapist had nothing to say either for or against while on other issues not related to my parents

By the end of the session I was defending my mum and actually attacking myself
I don't understand how this could happen; where and why were you defending your mum if you were not talking about your parents anymore?

It sounds like you are on the brink of a good breakthrough; you know your mum did not adequately care for you, did not like you, etc. There is no defending her! Move on away from her, you cannot get blood from that turnip.
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