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Rhapsody said:
((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))

And if I may ask? - when you talk to these peoples about your needs, are you doing it in a loving and respectful way (or) does come across as demanding and judgmental?


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

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<font color="purple"> Very good question! After thinking about it a bit I have to be honest and would say probably both.... more so with my hubby ... I think he just doesnt know what to do .... I have tried specifics, but I dont know... Yes there are times when I am not nice about it.. which is wrong.... and I can see why someone wouldnt want to give me the attention I am craving... I am aware that I can be manipulating... something I am working on..... I cannot explain the kind of attention I am craving... It isnt physical, its not pity or empathy, or friendship, or kindness.... its kind of a silent mental connection lined with love and validation... </font>